Online Love Story (the phenomenon)

Is there really a Happy Ending? Or is it all just in a fairytale books?

I was reflecting on these issues quite awhile now. And these questions are kept on coming back to me. I have many friends who got married through online dating, some were starting late than me but they got a husband now, some were early than me and well, they got there baby now. This thing bothers me for sometime, because I questioned on how they get a good husband online. Other say, its just fate, some say, its just techniques, and most of them says, it’s because of some dating sites: www.filipinaheart.com www.asianeuro.com www.cherryblossom.com

Before I don’t understand why Filipinas go after white guys, but while I was also infected on this online relationship (where I won’t be embarrassed to admit). I understand why girls are crazy over them…Ehem, yes they are sweet and they know how to make you feel head over heals for them. But as what we all know, that we don’t have the same qualities, some are just playing games and looking for fun but there are really some who also look for a serious commitment relationship online and I think this is were some of my friends to be categorized.

I’m not against about Online Dating, but the risk of getting hurt is very high (all relationship is risky, it’s on how you handle it, I think) what I meant is the intention of both parties. Just a little precaution to those who is about to go on this phenomenon….know his heart and I think it is also to your best interest if you leave something in you,don’t hope too much and have some reservation. Some people pretended to be free when the truth is they are already committed to someone else, some pretended to be your Prince Charming but the truth is he is just a frog. Some pretended to be there for you, when the truth is…it is just on the tip of his fingers. But of course I wont generalized all people online, there are also who have a great, beautiful heart and that’s what you have to really know. It’s not bad to be cautious but it is also not bad to take the risk. Because it’s when you risk your heart that you will come to know what love, pain, joy, happiness and thrill all about (Just be balance).

I just want to say for those who are on this for a game…please, don’t play the heart of a person, because you don’t know….it might happen to you also. "Do not no unto others, If you do not want others do unto YOU" when you start thinking bad towards other, please try to be in someone else shoes and feel what he/she might be feeling.

Love is not measured on what circumstances you are in weather its personal or online relationship you have, but its on how you open your heart to others, its how you let someone in.. in your life, its on how you are not afraid to take risks, its on how sincere you are and its on how you work on it. Relationship is not all about fate, destiny or mere good luck… you also have to work hard, persevere, hope, love, accept, and of course pray for it to work out. Every relationship is a blessing, I hope we will all know how to take care of our blessing and look forward for the completion of our love stories a happy ever after.

LOVE CANNOT BE BOX as what my sister says.
LOVE IS WHAT KEEPS US GOING as what I just reflect now.

NOW, WHAT IS LOVE FOR YOU? ARE YOU WILLING TO TAKE THE RISK OF WORKING IT OUT?


Happy Love Day everyone...